{"id":108,"date":"2019-04-11T08:46:24","date_gmt":"2019-04-11T08:46:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demo.themespiral.com\/freenews\/?p=108"},"modified":"2025-03-15T14:19:47","modified_gmt":"2025-03-15T14:19:47","slug":"ustunluk-duygusunun-barindirdigi-asagilik-karmasasi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/?p=108","title":{"rendered":"\u00dcst\u00fcnl\u00fck duygusunun bar\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k karma\u015fas\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\" style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Bazen insanlar, kendini be\u011fenmi\u015flik ya da kibir s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerine kula\u011fa daha ho\u015f gelen h\u0131rs s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kullanarak kendilerini biraz temize \u00e7\u0131karmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar<\/em>. -Alfred Adler<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Duygular de\u011fi\u015fkendir ve hepimiz bazen a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f\u0131zd\u0131r. Zaman zaman becerilerimiz konusunda endi\u015fe duyar, di\u011ferleri ile kendimizi kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rarak d\u00fczeyimiz hakk\u0131nda de\u011ferlendirmelerde bulunuruz. \u00d6rne\u011fin, ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda sizi etkileyen ciddi bir de\u011fi\u015fim olur (i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131lma, yak\u0131n ili\u015fkilerde sorunlar gibi) ve bu olaylar kendimizden \u015f\u00fcphe duymam\u0131za neden olabilir. B\u00f6yle durumlarda genellikle arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za veya ailemize d\u00f6ner, kendirimizi g\u00fcvende ve \u00fcretken hissetmenin ba\u015fka yollar\u0131n\u0131 arar\u0131z. Fakat a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k karma\u015fas\u0131 (kompleksi) ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z verece\u011finiz tepkilerde farkl\u0131 olur. Bu t\u00fcr durumlarda kendinize y\u00f6nelik ele\u015ftirileriniz daha keskin olurken, kendinize olmad\u0131k isimler takabilir ve yapm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funuz bu ele\u015ftirileri de makul g\u00f6rebilirsiniz. Kendinizi ispat etme \u00e7apas\u0131, bazen de kontrol edilemez \u00f6fke patlamalar\u0131 bu duygular\u0131n d\u0131\u015fa yans\u0131mas\u0131 olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kar.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Bireysel psikoloji ekol\u00fcn\u00fcn kurucusu Alfred Adler taraf\u0131ndan ortaya at\u0131lan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k kompleksi bireyin baz\u0131 y\u00f6nlerden kendini di\u011ferler insanlardan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 hissetmesi durumudur. \u00d6zellikle \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6nemine ili\u015fkin aile ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuk s\u0131ras\u0131 bu duygunun geli\u015fiminde rol oynar. Aile \u00fcyeleri, akranlar ve yeti\u015fkinlerle erken etkile\u015fim, ya\u015famdaki a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k ve \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn rol\u00fcn\u00fc belirlemeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. \u00d6rne\u011fin, b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocuk aile i\u00e7inde daha \u00f6n planda veya k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fun daha zeki olmas\u0131 durumu di\u011ferinin arka planda kalmas\u0131na neden olabilir ve bu \u00e7ocuk a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygusu geli\u015ftirebilir. \u00a0Benzer \u015fekilde ahlaki davran\u0131\u015f ve akademik \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131lar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan y\u00fcksek standartlar\u0131 olan anne-babaya sahip bir \u00e7ocuk da bu duyguyu ya\u015fayabilir.<\/p>\n<p>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygusu ya\u015fayan ki\u015fi bir k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7erisinde kendini bulur. Kendisini de\u011fersiz g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygusunu ya\u015far. Bu durum ac\u0131, \u00f6fke ve intikam gibi duygular ile kendisini g\u00f6sterir. Bu duygulardan kurtulmak i\u00e7in ise ula\u015f\u0131lmaz hedefler koyarlar. Koymu\u015f olduklar\u0131 bu hedeflere ula\u015famazlar ve ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olurlar. Bu onlar\u0131n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygusunu peki\u015ftirir ve yeniden d\u00f6ng\u00fcn\u00fcn ba\u015flamas\u0131na yol a\u00e7ar. Bu k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fc ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131n bir \u00e7ok alan\u0131nda kendini g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k kompleksi ya\u015fayan ki\u015filer her zaman \u00fcst\u00fcn olduklar\u0131 bir durum bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k kompleksinin kar\u015f\u0131t\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck kurma cabasidir. \u00dcst\u00fcnl\u00fck kompleksi, bir ki\u015finin ger\u00e7ekte oldu\u011fundan daha \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011funu kan\u0131tlama ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. \u00dcst\u00fcnl\u00fck kompleksi, yeteneklerinizin veya ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bir \u015fekilde di\u011fer insanlardan \u00f6nemli \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde daha iyi oldu\u011funa dair bir inan\u00e7t\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn erdemler onlarda toplanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu duygu asl\u0131nda ki\u015finin i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 derin bir a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygusuna verilen tepkidir. Olaylar\u0131n kahraman\u0131 olan bu ki\u015filer, her \u015feyin kontrollerinde olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister ve her durumda \u00fcst\u00fcn olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu duyguya sahip ki\u015filer k\u00fcstah, kibirli ya da kavgac\u0131 olarak bu \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir. Asl\u0131nda geli\u015ftirmi\u015f olduklar\u0131 ya\u015fam tarz\u0131 bu duygunun telafi boyutunu olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a class=\"post_meta_item post_author\" style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gokmenarslan.com.tr\/author\/admin\/\" rel=\"author\"><span class=\"post_author_name\">G\u00f6kmen Arslan &#8211;<\/span><\/a><span class=\"post_meta_item post_date\">23 Aral\u0131k 2022<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Daha fazla bilgi i\u00e7in ne okumal\u0131y\u0131m?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Adler, A. (2013). The Science of Living (Psychology Revivals). Routledge.<br \/>\nAdler, A. (2013). Understanding Human Nature (Psychology Revivals). Routledge.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bazen insanlar, kendini be\u011fenmi\u015flik ya da kibir s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerine kula\u011fa daha ho\u015f gelen h\u0131rs s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kullanarak kendilerini biraz temize \u00e7\u0131karmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. -Alfred Adler Duygular de\u011fi\u015fkendir ve hepimiz bazen a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f\u0131zd\u0131r. Zaman zaman becerilerimiz konusunda endi\u015fe duyar, di\u011ferleri ile kendimizi kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rarak d\u00fczeyimiz hakk\u0131nda de\u011ferlendirmelerde bulunuruz. \u00d6rne\u011fin, ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda sizi etkileyen ciddi bir de\u011fi\u015fim olur (i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131lma, &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":575,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-108","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mutlu-yasam"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=108"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1380,"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108\/revisions\/1380"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/575"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=108"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=108"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokmenarslan.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=108"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}